Husbands may be the head of the home 🤔 hmm! Who is the boss of the house?
You were destined to be. You were known before you were born!
(Isaiah 44:2)”And now the LORD says–he who formed me in the womb to be his servant to bring Jacob back to him and gather Israel to himself, for I am honored in the eyes of the LORD and my God has been my strength” (Isaiah 49:5). … God does not look at our lives from birth to death; He views us from conception onward!
Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means Love your wives, just as Christ Loved the church. He gave up His life for her.” Genesis 2:24: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become ONE flesh.” … He who Loves his wife Loves himself.
Don’t be the Wife that stands by your husband in time of problems, rather be that Wife that gets him out of problems, you are standing by him in solidarity on your knees PULL HIM DOWN! Kneel and do the needful!
The Praying Wife
He called you and said, “Honey, I just lost the contract that we invested our all into.”
Don’t start shouting; “What?”,
“How come?”, “What happened?”
“Oh my God!” Simply tell him; “It is well Darling, its well, let us as we always do, thank God FIRST and in all we do. Remember? Pray ceaselessly. Hon! Not just that: Give thanks in ALL things, Amen.” On our knees we are. This promise is for US! ALL things work together for good!
“And we know that ALL things work together for good to them that LOVE God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.”
The Praying Wife
You want to marry a Pastor?
Don’t wait until scandal has eaten him up before standing by him, stay at the gate! No Jezebel should get your king!
The Praying Queen
After 1 year of marriage, nothing has changed positively/significantly in your home? Then retreat, get on your knees and speak to our Father, Who knows ALL. I will point out that it IS known! He awaits your approach in prayer!
Remember this! Daniel sought wisdom. He humbled himself and prayed! Not for a day, two days, a week! Whoa! Let us peek to see how long he prayed and what happened.
Daniel’s Vision of a Man
In the third year of Cyrus king of Persia, a revelation was given to Daniel (who was called Belteshazzar). Its message was true and it concerned a great war. The understanding of the message came to him in a vision.
At that time I, Daniel, mourned for three weeks. I ate no choice food; no meat or wine touched my lips;and I used no lotions at all until the three weeks were over.
On the twenty-fourth day of the first month, as I was standing on the bank of the great river, the Tigris, I looked up and there before me was a man dressed in linen, with a belt of fine gold from Uphaz around his waist. 6 His body was like topaz, his face like lightning, his eyes like flaming torches, his arms and legs like the gleam of burnished bronze, and his voice like the sound of a multitude.
I, Daniel, was the only one who saw the vision; those who were with me did not see it, but such terror overwhelmed them that they fled and hid themselves. So I was left alone, gazing at this great vision; I had no strength left, my face turned deathly pale and I was helpless. Then I heard him speaking, and as I listened to him, I fell into a deep sleep, my face to the ground.
A hand touched me and set me trembling on my hands and knees. He said, “Daniel, you who are highly esteemed, consider carefully the words I am about to speak to you, and stand up, for I have now been sent to you.” And when he said this to me, I stood up trembling.
Then he continued, “Do not be afraid, Daniel. Since the first day that you set your mind to gain understanding and to humble yourself before your God, your words were heard, and I have come in response to them. But the prince of the Persian kingdom resisted me twenty-one days. Then Michael, one of the chief princes, came to help me, because I was detained there with the king of Persia. Now I have come to explain to you what will happen to your people in the future, for the vision concerns a time yet to come.”
While he was saying this to me, I bowed with my face toward the ground and was speechless. Then one who looked like a man touched my lips, and I opened my mouth and began to speak. I said to the one standing before me, “I am overcome with anguish because of the vision, my lord, and I feel very weak. How can I, your servant, talk with you, my lord? My strength is gone and I can hardly breathe.”
Again the one who looked like a man touched me and gave me strength. “Do not be afraid, you who are highly esteemed,” he said. “Peace! Be strong now; be strong.”
When he spoke to me, I was strengthened and said, “Speak, my lord, since you have given me strength.”
So he said, “Do you know why I have come to you? Soon I will return to fight against the prince of Persia, and when I go, the prince of Greece will come; but first I will tell you what is written in the Book of Truth.(No one supports me against them except Michael,your prince.
We may ask: “When did this start?” Not in the lions den! When and where Daniel was as he always was – prayer filled! Or in the example below he had started ages before:
In the first year of Darius (to give an account of ‘time’) son of Xerxes (a Mede by descent), who was made ruler over the Babylonian kingdom— in the first year of his reign, I, Daniel, understood from the Scriptures (as we are apt to study!
I Daniel understood that aaccording to The Word of The Lord given to Jeremiah the prophet, that the desolation of Jerusalem would last seventy years. So I turned to The Lord God and pleaded with Him in prayer and petition, in fasting, and in sackcloth and ashes.
I prayed to The Lord my God and confessed:
“Lord, the great and awesome God, Who keeps His covenant of Love with those who Love Him and keep His commandments, we have sinned and done wrong. We have been wicked and have rebelled; we have turned away from Your commands and laws. We have not listened to Your servants the prophets, who spoke in Your name to our kings, our princes and our ancestors, and to all the people of the land.
“Lord, You are righteous, but this day we are covered with shame—the people of Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem and all Israel, both near and far, in all the countries where You have scattered us because of our unfaithfulness to You.We and our kings, our princes and our ancestors are covered with shame, Lord, because we have sinned against You. The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against Him; we have not obeyed The Lord our God or kept the laws He gave us through His servants the prophets. All Israel has transgressed Your law and turned away, refusing to obey You.
“Therefore the curses and sworn judgments written in the Law of Moses, the servant of God, have been poured out on us, because we have sinned against You. You have fulfilled the Words spoken against us and against our rulers by bringing on us great disaster. Under the whole Heaven nothing has ever been done like what has been done to Jerusalem. Just as it is written in the Law of Moses, all this disaster has come on us, yet we have not sought the favor of The Lord our God by turning from our sins and giving attention to Your truth. The Lord did not hesitate to bring the disaster on us, for The Lord our God is righteous in everything He does; yet we have not obeyed Him.
“Now, Lord our God, who brought your people out of Egypt with a mighty Hand and who made for Yourself a Name that endures to this day, we have sinned, we have done wrong. Lord, in keeping with all Your righteous acts, turn away Your anger and Your wrath from Jerusalem, Your city, Your holy hill. Our sins and the iniquities of our ancestors have made Jerusalem and Your people an object of scorn to all those around us.
“Now, our God, hear the prayers and petitions of Your servant. For Your sake, Lord, look with favor on Your desolate sanctuary. Give ear, our God, and hear; open Your eyes and see the desolation of the city that bears Your Name. We do not make requests of You because we are righteous, but because of Your great mercy. Lord, listen! Lord, forgive! Lord, hear and act! For Your sake, my God, do not delay, because your city and your people bear your Name.”
What makes a prayer warrior? Do you speak with The Lord? How often?
In marriage, we have learned:
As a wife, you are a good thing and whoever finds you walked into favour with God.
The Wailing Wife
Deborah was not just a Wife, she was a Prophetess, a Judge and a Warrior.
Deborah. According to the Book of Judges, Deborah (Hebrew: דְּבוֹרָה, Devora, “Bee”) was a prophetess of the God of the Israelites, the fourth Judge of pre-monarchic Israel and the only female judge mentioned in the Bible, and the wife of Lapidoth.
Be a warriors On Heels!
Even if you married an idiot in your ignorance, don’t die lamenting, Get on your knees, Restore his head in prayer to the default factory setting 😊! You can’t be wrong twice!
The Wailing Wife
It is good to package yourself so that he will not ‘cheat’; husbands, this goes for you as well! Are you to be desired? We could go into this, but will at a later time.
Women, is also good to cook well so that he won’t look outside, remembering His Mother’s cooking.
It is ‘better’ to be ‘submissive’ so that he adores you, but it is ‘best’ to kneel on his behalf.
Definition of submissive?
A submissive wife. … Being a submissive wife does NOT mean that you are your husband’s slave. To better understand what it means to be a submissive wife, let’s take a closer look at the definition of the word. The word submissive is defined as: inclined or ready to submit or to put oneself under authority of another.
As a Wife, slay in the kitchen,
Slay in the bedroom,
Slay in your dress and presentation,
Slay in your intelligence,
But slay MORE on your knees! Amen.
Be your husband’s prayer alarm.
Until your son says; “I want a Wife like my mother”, you didn’t get it right as a mother!
The virtuous Wife
No matter how romantic you are, if you are not romantic in the place of prayer, get ready for rheumatism.
Get on your knees
Woman, you are not just a Wife and a Mother, you are also a Minister!
Let your lips be painted with prayer beyond the lipstick.
If you know the power of praying the Word, you will keep your territory under intense heat.
Be your husband’s retreat center.