Questioning IF there is a Reason? Your circumstances? A lot of why’s? Let’s get into it!

Admit it. You have lots of WHY questions for God.

Why am I going through this situation?

Why did You let that happen?

Why didn’t You allow me to experience that blessing?

Although it is human nature to question and try to find the reasoning behind God’s ways, I truly believe most of our “why” questions result from ignorance about Who God is or a lack of faith in what He is doing.

To be honest, my testimony is known by regular readers of this share. I look to bring honor and glory to God ALONE. A very brief summary for new arrivees: was in a near fatal motor vehicle accident and near drowning. Was ‘rescued’; after a number of surgeries my condition was not positively predicted – death or posttraumatic stress disorder and physical ailments. Love brought me through. In my ‘dream’, I remember experiencing so very much. It was seeing my kids crying inconsolable that moved me to ask The Force, Entity that I was before after a ‘dream’ about my past history to awaken and ensure that the boys were OK. My experience since discharge from the rehab facility has been a continued testimony. I share because I experienced and more pointedly I know that I said I would. So, here we are… I in my life am learning each day the beyond AWESOME glory of The Creator Who Knows ALL things!

The questions above are a few of the numerous questions that I have asked and are being answered daily!

I’ve come up with what I call “God’s Top 10 Answers to Our ‘Why’ Questions.” They are not in any particular order. But they are all based on Scripture and what it tells us of God’s character. If He were to speak audibly perhaps His answers to your questions would be:

1. Trust Me. I have My reasons.

We don’t really like this answer, because we want God to explain Himself. We want to see the reasons and exercise our option to agree or disagree with God. Yet God points out in Isaiah 55:8-9:

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, declares The Lord. For as the Heavens are higher than the Earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts“ (ESV). 

I can’t help but feel that is God’s way of saying “Because I said so.” But like a loving parent, who may have said that to you when you were a child, God Knows what He is doing and Scripture says God’s ways are perfect (Psalm 18:30) and therefore God never makes mistakes.  

2. So you will grow.

In James 1:2-4, we are instructed: Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. God wants you to be perfect and complete. So He will, at times, allow you to go through hardships to grow your character. 

3. You never asked.

Because God Knows all that we need we expect Him to give blessings that we have not even asked for. Yet God wants the relationship. He wants you to ask, and keep coming back to ask again.  James 4:2 says: “…You do not have because you do not ask” (NIV). I know so many people who ask “Why won’t God give me what I need?” but they’ve never really asked Him for resolution to their needs/wants. Sometimes God wants to work within us and to begin that work, we need to start the conversation.

4. You’re asking for the wrong reasons.

“God, why can’t I win the lottery?” “God why won’t You give me this high-paying position?” “God why didn’t you let me win that?” Yes, James 4:2 says “You do not have because you do not ask,” but the next verse clarifies that statement further: “When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures” (James 4:3). God will not be a party to our selfishness. So if you are asking for something for you, God’s answer might be “You’re being selfish.” Try asking for something for Him. Or, try asking for something that Jesus would ask for (which is the literal meaning of praying for something “in Jesus’ name”) It puts a whole new spin on the equation. And it may eliminate your “why” question altogether.  

Remember this!

“Father LORD, Your will be done.” In my ALL, Amen.

5. So you’ll rely on Me.

Without a job? Without a home? Without hope? Face it, when we don’t have what we want or need, it makes us desperate. God wants to be The One we are desperate for and I believe He will allow whatever it takes to make us fully dependent on Him. Deuteronomy 13:4 commands us to “follow The Lord your God and fear Him; and you shall keep His commandments, listen to His Voice, serve Him, and cling to Him.” Nothing makes us cling to God more than when we are desperate for something. Be desperate for God. And He will become your answer to your every need.

6. Just Wait.

So often our “why” questions are premature. We get impatient because we can’t see an end result, but God works on an entirely different timeline than we do. Psalm 84:11 says “no good thing does He withhold from those whose walk is blameless.” So if you are walking uprightly and it seems like God is withholding something good, it either isn’t truly good for you or it isn’t time. 

7. I have something better in mind.

Sometimes our “why” is because we believe God is giving us second best, or He’s forgotten about us altogether. But Jesus said: “If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father Who is in Heaven give good things to those who ask Him!” Matthew 7:11. Could God be waiting to give you something better than you’ve thought to ask for? I know it’s difficult to endure something when you are hoping for something better. But keep your hope in God (not in what you are hoping from Him). He is far better than the most loving of Earthly parents. He sees what is best for us eternally, not just temporally. And He is a God who Loves to bless His children. 

8. I’m protecting you.

The Psalmist said “My mouth will tell of your righteous deeds, of your saving acts ALL day long – though I know not how to relate them all” (Psalm 71:15, NIV, emphasis added). Do you believe that God is saving you all day long through what He brings in and out of your life? God may say “no” to save you from something hurtful or He might allow something you don’t like because it’s keeping you from something worse. God knows our weaknesses when it comes to temptation. He knows our tendency for failure when it comes to our relationships and He sees what’s ahead and we don’t. Suggestions to speaking to our Source, The Author of ALL: “God, please allow this but only if I will remain humble and give the glory to You.” He protects us physically, as well as morally and spiritually and like any good Father, He knows what is best for His children. 

9. I’m making you more like Jesus.

We love to quote Romans 8:28“And we know that for those who Love God all things work together for good, (admitedly one of my favorites!) for those who are called according to His purpose” and then we look for the good so we can hold onto it. But now, I truly believe that verse, taken in context with the next verse tells us the “good” that God is constantly working on in terms of why He allows – and doesn’t allow – what He does: “For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to The Image of His Son…” (verse 29). Sometimes the “why” is simply because God wants to make you, through your circumstances, more like His Son – Jesus. 

10. Because I love you.

God Loves us too much to give us exactly what we want. Today, instead of asking “Why couldn’t I have these things?” I find myself, instead, saying “Thank You, Lord, for knowing what is/was best for me.” God is Loving. He is good. And if He “did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?” (Romans 8:32, NASB). If God has not delivered on something you wanted or has allowed something you don’t understand, His answer might best be “Because I Love you. And one day you will understand.” 

Can you trust this God upon whom you have piled your questions?

Then say this prayer from Your heart as a way of letting Him Know you are His and You trust Him with whatever He has in mind: 

Lord, thank You that in spite of Your “no” or “wait” or even Your silence, You know what is very best for me and You promise to work for my eternal good, not just my temporary satisfaction. Thank You that in all situations, in all pain and pressure and circumstances beyond my control, You are making me more like Christ, as I give up my will and surrender to Yours. 

Scripture says without faith it is impossible to please You so I choose to believe that You have it all under control. Thank You for being a good, Loving, all-knowing and ever-present God Who will not let anything touch me that hasn’t first passed through Your Loving hands. In The name of Jesus, Amen. 

Published by Fellowship of Praise: ALL praise to God our Reason, Hallelujah!!!

To God be The glory. Let us praise God together for His ALL in our lives, Amen.

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