We all know that it is possible for someone’s chronological age to not necessarily equal his or her maturity. Many of us know grown adults who are still infantile in the way they function in their emotional or spiritual lives. They have obviously not matured with their age.
Our goal should be to stand before The Lord as spiritual adults, not as spiritual toddlers. Just as a baby does not stay the same weight he/she was at birth, so you and I are not to stay on the same spiritual level that we were when we got saved.
Maturity is the process of going deeper spiritually and thus becoming more like Christ in our character, conduct, attitudes and actions. So, don’t look online for a comparison to others; look in the mirror to see how closely you reflect Jesus. – Tony Evans
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