“The apology is pointless if the heart is still bitter. That tongue still has poison in it.”
Listen dear friend, people like this you forgive anyway. Their pride won’t allow them to repent and change, but your forgiveness allows you to let go, leave them in the hands of God, and keep your peace. Set up boundaries, distance yourself accordingly, but don’t fret. God knows exactly who they are, and what they have done or said to you; and His Word tells us to leave them to Him. Vengeance is the Lord’s.
“Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”