“Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”
“Church attender does not mean Christ like character. So them being a person of faith is important, yes! But it is only consequential, when they are a person that is living their life under the influence of the presence, or principles of God. If not, they are your “church mate” NOT your “soulmate!”
I am not judging you based on your title, I am looking at your character!
If you’re a person that values change, and you are with someone who doesn’t, that is not an equally yoked [relationship]. All you are doing is setting yourself up for a relationship of inequity. Where they get the benefit of the person you become, but you get stuck with the bill for the person they won’t become.”